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Fall07Bride
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Member since 9/06 269 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/5/2007 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace A+++
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wedding depression
so i am getting to the one year mark and i am getting seriously depressed. i was cleaning and found all of my wedding "do it yourself" stuff and the weather is starting to change and it is all reminding me of a year ago when i was preparing for the happiest day of my life. and i cant believe it has been a year already! i want to be a bride again!!! i miss the planning and excitement! anyone else feel this way? 
Message edited 8/20/2008 11:01:00 AM.
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Posted 8/20/08 10:54 AM 
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DrWho
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 2/07 1308 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/12/2007 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Miller Place Inn
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Re: wedding depression
I have since planned a wedding, a baby shower, a 60th birthday, and I'm hoping to have an engaged sister and 2 more showers to plan.
Just keep encouraging people to have kids. Then offer to make invitations, thank you cards, and favors. It softens the blow.
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Posted 8/20/08 2:37 PM
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NoraPearl
Board Enthusiast
Member since 4/06 245 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Sans Souci of Sea Cliff
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Re: wedding depression
Yes and that is why I am still on LI Weddings so I can help others and live vicariously! Congrats on the 1 year mark!
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Posted 8/20/08 2:54 PM
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oldladybride
Board Fanatic
Member since 3/07 843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Larkfield Manor A+++++
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Re: wedding depression
Posted by NoraPearl
Yes and that is why I am still on LI Weddings so I can help others and live vicariously! Congrats on the 1 year mark!
me too - - 1yr anniversary date twin
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Posted 8/20/08 8:01 PM
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MushesGirl
The Complete Vegetarian!
Member since 5/07 1125 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/29/2007 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
WCC
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Re: wedding depression
me 3. i'm still on here, giving advice where feasable, trying to make 1000 posts lol...i feel your pain. i miss it all too
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Posted 8/20/08 8:10 PM
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songwriterchic
Enjoying Married Life!
Member since 7/06 1119 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Giorgio's
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Re: wedding depression
I sometimes feel that way too, I can't believe my 1 year is in 13 days. I'm more sad though that our first year has gone so fast...we did have fun going on several trips but I just thought it would be different. More fun and less house work I guess!
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Posted 8/20/08 9:02 PM
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NoraPearl
Board Enthusiast
Member since 4/06 245 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Sans Souci of Sea Cliff
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Re: wedding depression
Posted by songwriterchic
I sometimes feel that way too, I can't believe my 1 year is in 13 days. I'm more sad though that our first year has gone so fast...we did have fun going on several trips but I just thought it would be different. More fun and less house work I guess!
Date twins,
Ok so I know our anniversary is on the 2nd of course, which is a Tuesday this year, but don't you also kind of feel that Labor Day weekend in general is your anniversary too? I'm having anniversary identity crisis haha
Message edited 8/21/2008 9:13:58 AM.
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Posted 8/21/08 9:12 AM
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gemmifer
Enjoying 1yr :) & change...
Member since 1/08 4374 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/13/2007 4:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Jedediah Hawkins Inn&Morgan's Penthouse NYC 11/30
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Re: wedding depression
I am not sure if it is depression.. it is just that I got soo wrapped up in the process for a year that I was on overload and learned how to be a great multi tasker under stress and time restrictions. Now I am not sure what to do b/c of it... I learned I think I need like a real intense job
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Posted 8/21/08 1:15 PM
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leafgirl
"B4 they call I will answer"
Member since 11/06 2060 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/2/2007 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
BOOKED =)!!!!
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Re: wedding depression
Posted by gemmifer
I am not sure if it is depression.. it is just that I got soo wrapped up in the process for a year that I was on overload and learned how to be a great multi tasker under stress and time restrictions. Now I am not sure what to do b/c of it... I learned I think I need like a real intense job
ITA... I need to be busy at all times and if I am not ... it get's boring. I do miss being a bride and doing things that were lighter in life. But life has a lot of great things in store for all of us, they are yet to come. 
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Posted 8/21/08 1:22 PM
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oldladybride
Board Fanatic
Member since 3/07 843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2007 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Larkfield Manor A+++++
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Re: wedding depression
Posted by leafgirl
Posted by gemmifer
I am not sure if it is depression.. it is just that I got soo wrapped up in the process for a year that I was on overload and learned how to be a great multi tasker under stress and time restrictions. Now I am not sure what to do b/c of it... I learned I think I need like a real intense job
ITA... I need to be busy at all times and if I am not ... it get's boring. I do miss being a bride and doing things that were lighter in life. But life has a lot of great things in store for all of us, they are yet to come.
that's a good outlook. as a compromise for missing the planning i have sort of extended the wedding by playing with the digital proofs from the photog. I now have all sorts of slideshows made into dvd's - - given to the wedding party. one of which is in my video lib and also playing with doing composite pics - - I call montages. also given to the wedding party.
thinking it might be a niche as a wedding business. but that thought passes quickly and I go back to being retired.
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Posted 8/21/08 2:38 PM
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vika111
Love Love Love
Member since 8/07 1333 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/22/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Passage Palace
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Re: wedding depression
I have my friends' weddings, now, so no depression for me yet.
But I know what you mean. It's nice to plan for the big day, even if it is so much work
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Posted 8/26/08 12:16 PM
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sugarkube4
2 Crazy Peas in a Pod
Member since 2/06 10366 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/29/2007 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: wedding depression
God no... I am so glad it's over.. I am sure I will reminisce once I get my album and video though.. but I will have them as ever lasting memories
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Posted 8/26/08 6:50 PM
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